@mythos Gooning is when I fap to what I want to fap to and not what is the least embarrassing to fap to, it's when I also have hours of time to myself, and I can be by myself, in my nice headspace. I'm sure I could goon with a partner I just never have, just because I'm not embarrassed doesn't mean I wouldn't be effected by any abuse about what I look at so I never have gooned with another person.