Chet: We understand that we have a bond that's unlike any other, when we look at each other as two men, or even as three men or four men, or any group of men, when we look at each other as men, we know that we have a unique experience because of our gender, and when we take that into account we become bonded into a brothership of trust, and I think that's one of the most powerful, and beautiful things there can be. No women are dividing any of us, we're tight in this group, and if one of our men brothers has a vagina we accept him just like any other, he's a brother and he's tight in the group. Now who wants to say it with me now, Men Bros United! Again one more time! MEN BROS UNITED! Now give your bro a kiss, show your bro you love him no homo. All right meeting adjourned see you guys next time.
(Chet is a character I just made up and this is how he is).
Chet is a devout christian who runs a youth group that is trans inclusive but also deeply homophobic at the same time and he encourages the bros to kiss because that's based on the bible and it's no homo as Chet says because the kiss has been taken over by the extremist gays and turned into a sexual thing when really two men (according to Chet) can kiss it out no homo to strengthen their brotherhood.
Chet has no ill will and is completely unaware of the contradictions and mental gymnastics he goes through on a regular basis, Chet is totally unaware that he's lying to himself, which means he's completely delusional. Nobody questions Chet, and Chet has one of the number one rated podcasts in this fictional world, and once in a while people kind of make fun of him for the whole -bro kiss it out- stuff but they're immediately drowned out by massive numbers of Chet lovers calling them queers and saying they're trying to make the kiss a gay thing.