I'm not even addicted to something people consider a problem, so I feel like I don't count. But I get blitzingly stoned every day, and have been doing that for 10 years, before that I'd get stoned as hell but it wasn't every day. When a friend irl died and my only other friend and psudo boyfriend left me alone to suffer, I even got into harder stuff and risky relationships, I've been technically sexually assaulted, numerous times, I just told myself for a long time those weren't assaults, they were "uncomfortable" memories because I wasn't ready to admit the facts. I'm glad I left those people, rape me once shame on you, rape me twice...I've learned not to be raped by the same person twice now. If they disrespect your consent once, they'll do it again, forever, leave them, find a support group./vent