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A true story: I tried doing that once. For 20 minutes I pretended to be the right kind of retarded, that is accepted by society.
4 guys I never met before all agreed that I was some cool guy. (I know that from an older friend)
The problem? I felt horrible. It was like watching a tv series instead of living. When the time came, I just 'pressed the right button' and the movie continued.
I learned nothing from them. I was not even truly talking to them. I was just a perfect mirror for their insecurities. And I cannot live like that.
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I saw a short clip from an interview of Brand Brown who says she doesn't negotiate who she is for anyone because once you start you may be accepted by the person you've appeased but you aren't accepted by your self.
I wonder how many people really are doing this to fit in vs being a true believer.