As far as I am concerned, non autostic people are deffective. It must be so tiresome to always focus on 200 people's emotional state and opinions about each other. Then to focus on deforming each sentence to sound the correct way, even if it sacrefices the original message.
How could they even get through primary school with such a cognitive load is a mystery, but somehow, I don't even want to know. 
@LukeAlmighty people without autism have the ability to filter sensory and cognitive input
Is simple and as it turns out, necessary to absolutely not pay attention to any of that shit whatsoever unless it is pertinent to what you were doing at any given moment
@LukeAlmighty @MechaSilvio how so? Most interactions aren’t planned and meticulously laid out with flow charts that follow a logical stage of progression
Everything is very fluid and ad hoc most of the time. While some people that you know will respond in predictable ways that you can anticipate you honestly don’t know what people are going to do most of the time but generally a commonly held culture and standards of conduct limit the possibilities of what you will have to deal with with other people’s behavior
It’s actually a lot less complicated than you think despite the variables involved most of them are completely irrelevant in practice
@Jackuu @MechaSilvio
> How so?
I am talking about the fact, that normies are used to lying to each other, and that if I were to point to the one thing, that I need more then any cure, it would be to cut the pointless lies from my childhood.
And you say, that people not only don't know that they lie, but that it's not even a real brain process. That is WORSE!!!
@RoyalJohnny242 @Jackuu @MechaSilvio
Well, obviously. I am working on it too.
And that's my point actually. I might have been 5 years ahead of where I am now, if ANYONE actually bothered to explain to me as a kid just how fucking often do people lie. And worse, that they don't even think about it.
@LukeAlmighty @RoyalJohnny242 @MechaSilvio I’m not sure what your perception of people “lying to you” actually entails. Is it people acting differently in different situations? Or is it people selectively sharing information with different people?
I’m just trying to understand where you’re coming from here
literal autistic bullshit.
@Jackuu @MechaSilvio @RoyalJohnny242
ok.
First off, you won't be debating my opinions, but my opinions from when I was 6-12. Because that is, when the damage is made.
That being said, do you realy not remember all of the lies that were told in that age? All of the feel good lines, that if taken seriously could get you killed?
The problem is, that in the same way, as telling modern women, that they won't be judged for sleeping around, causes some of them to actually believe it, autistic people need to be told, that people are tribal, emotional and once they get invested in something, they cannot be reasoned with. How about, that people will always lie if it means increasing their tribal standing?
Even this little would do miracles. But instead, we are telling kids about kindness, non-judgment and most importantly, that deep down, everyone is a good person.
That shit takes years to figgure out. And those are yours you will never get back. 
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@MechaSilvio@poa.st
