@cadeon
The correct anwser is:
If they acted like adults, this question would never be asked.
And any woman who needs it to behave properly is too dangerous to ever be a good choice to be a wife.
@cadeon
That is a good theory, but we live in a totalitarian hellhole, where a single word of a woman can mean your enslavement. Therefore, I do place on any "wife material" an almost unrealistic level of moral judgement as an absolute requirement.
Does it mean I will die alone? Most likely. But It still sounds better then the alternative.