People can blame women but all this is, is the result of an individualized society. Adult women moved 5 states away from their parents, attend no church, and rely on work to fulfill their sense of being in a community, lacking any relationships of value except for those low-quality, tempermental work ones at best. All this shit preys upon their desire to have a mentor walk them through the process of motherhood, which is natural for a first-time mother.
It's simple to those outside of it, but this child is a world altering shift in strippedthe way she thinks. We'll say "duh, it's simple", but her mind has told her that doing this properly is more important than ensuring the continued existence of air and gravity. Unfortunately, we're all so atomized she can't address it the proper way, by sitting down with mom and grandma, even the inlaws, and grow as a person.
it's another simple, free, healthy thing ripped from its due course and stripped of meaning to be sold for a price. I don't quite love this attitude of "haha lol dumb white women haha", it's very divorced from an understanding of motherhood and women.
It's simple to those outside of it, but this child is a world altering shift in strippedthe way she thinks. We'll say "duh, it's simple", but her mind has told her that doing this properly is more important than ensuring the continued existence of air and gravity. Unfortunately, we're all so atomized she can't address it the proper way, by sitting down with mom and grandma, even the inlaws, and grow as a person.
it's another simple, free, healthy thing ripped from its due course and stripped of meaning to be sold for a price. I don't quite love this attitude of "haha lol dumb white women haha", it's very divorced from an understanding of motherhood and women.
@WashedOutGundamPilot Imagine paying to be told about skin contact, latching, and what colostrum is.
Do city people really?
@nobullyplz YES. It is THAT important to her. This is what mothers are, even if it's a basic, super simple thing, her instincts tell her to make sure she's 100% accurate and perfect at doing it because her baby is the focal point of the universe.
It's hard for dudes to accurately understand the gravity that a baby holds. It's the absolute center of life now, anything that has to do with its life and comfort is job #1, deserving of all her efforts no matter how simple and mundane. Her instincts push her in ways that guys can't quite understand. Sure, we get horniness as an instinct, fighting, struggling, but parental instincts are far and away so much stronger than anything we feel.
She's a woman, she needs to feel like the tribe approves of her, that she has their approval and protection as a vulnerable mother. She wants an expert to tell her, she NEEDS that thirst for community to be sated by having a living older woman tell her to her face and give her verbal feedback that she's able to feed her baby well.
Boys don't have those same inclinations for community, so we're obviously gonna say "jeez, dummy, just look it up and read the text on the page" but that doesn't fulfill her needs, because it's not just about obtaining the information.
It's hard for dudes to accurately understand the gravity that a baby holds. It's the absolute center of life now, anything that has to do with its life and comfort is job #1, deserving of all her efforts no matter how simple and mundane. Her instincts push her in ways that guys can't quite understand. Sure, we get horniness as an instinct, fighting, struggling, but parental instincts are far and away so much stronger than anything we feel.
She's a woman, she needs to feel like the tribe approves of her, that she has their approval and protection as a vulnerable mother. She wants an expert to tell her, she NEEDS that thirst for community to be sated by having a living older woman tell her to her face and give her verbal feedback that she's able to feed her baby well.
Boys don't have those same inclinations for community, so we're obviously gonna say "jeez, dummy, just look it up and read the text on the page" but that doesn't fulfill her needs, because it's not just about obtaining the information.
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> Boys don't have those same inclinations for community,
Write : "I'm a misandrist that never cared about men" in the clearest way you can.
@LukeAlmighty @WashedOutGundamPilot @nobullyplz Recognising differences between the sexes and that women tend to be more social is not manhating, wtf?
@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @nobullyplz @WashedOutGundamPilot
I don't mind recognizing biological differences, but to say: "Boys don't have those same inclinations for community" is just a slight variation on the old "boys don't have feelings" trope.
