Something I kinda wonder here:
Women read other girls bitching about men as a kind of status thing, where they assume the complaints are the result of a mountain of male attention and popularity, right? They usually read that stuff at face value, it rarely occurs to them that the other girls are lying and pretending to be more popular than they are.
So….the dude who hate on women should piss them off, because they know that THEY don’t want these incel loose-rs, so they assume the guys are trying to complain as if they’ve received a crumb of female attention.
I’m only half-fermented here, it’s a work in progress but I think there’s something interesting to be mined by looking at the female approach to the phenom
I guess everyone’s more interested in the pic. Reposting this because it’s a sterling take:
@WashedOutGundamPilot
Yesterday, I wrote somewhere, that my list is: Kind, sane and fertile.
To that someone seriously replied that most women are fertile. 
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And if that wasn't enough, he started complaining, that I didn't define kind or sane in any scientifically measurable way, and that obviously everyone believes, that they are kind.
Fucking commies.
This is what an university does to you. It ruins your brain with numbers for so long, that you forget how language works. I am autistic ffs, and one of the hard things to learn was that people do use language with intend. Yet, I see every day more academics, who get "learned autism" or something.
@LukeAlmighty That kind of thing is basically “well, imagine someone not like you”. A kind woman is one who has to be protected from herself, you have to make sure she doesn’t let anyone take advantage of her, have to force her to take care of herself sometimes. It’s a great time and super cute.
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Here is that rant.
I am sorry, but that is just autistic.
> I also hope you're not including female children in the statistic for "all women", or older women past menopause. If you are, then "all men" also have a pretty low fertility rate, only a little higher than that of females because men don't have to go through the immense toll of birthing children, or women's natural hormonal changes (aka, not due to anything genuinely wrong with the woman).
Sanity is also a weird metric to judge a whole sex on. Mental illness and disorders are statistically in the minority (because they're NOT normal).
I would like to know by what metric kindness is measured. Is it based on how many people you're "kind" too, or how many "kind" things you do? What is a "kind" thing? Everybody does a combo and/or level of those things, or they do something they believe is kind. But one person will always say they are kind and another will say they aren't. Nobody (male or female) is kind to all of humanity equally. Not everybody's way of being kind is taken that way.
@LukeAlmighty haha, sounds like they’re a little defensive. Some people don’t like standards at all
B: Do you have a peer-reviewed reputable source to back up your anecdote?
A: wtf *!!*
@YTFoidLover1488 @LukeAlmighty I was taught that you can just say
“hey, I don’t want to be mean or anything, but in the future could you just, like….talk to me less?”
@LukeAlmighty That’s about where I landed. Gramps always said a “kind, selfless heart” was the only REAL thing that mattered, though a good measure of health made its way up there too