The uncomfortable fact is that it’s true though. Both genders see high quality people picked off much quicker than lesser quality. The fact I hit 28 without ever being married meant that I was still a fuck up, though if you ask me the problem is more with the women than me….exactly how everyone else feels. We minimize our problems and maximize others, making it even HARDER to find someone as we age and get set in our ways.

In my case it’s largely because I can’t find someone who’s agreeable, I’m extraordinarily willful and probably too self-centered. You come into my life, I don’t go into yours. I won’t hang out with your retarded friends or visit their kids’ pointless activities to hang out and drink with the popular moms, I have my own plans. The biggest dealbreaker for me has always been the fact that “trad” women take after the pop-culture family approach where she’s the captain, the mom, and the family head all in one. I will not be mothered by somebody with zero life experience, skill, or rationale, and that’s too often what the church-going gals seem to expect in life: a soft pushover whose sole function is economic to be lorded over.

Still though, that’s “wrong” from all of their POVs, most breakups were caused by them contravening some standard of mine that they either shrugged off or ignored. Stuff like “oh I was just going out with an ex for dinner, you’re making a big deal out of nothing, it’s not like I kissed him….” or “oh well anal doesn’t count, otherwise I’d…..I’m kidding, I’m totally kidding hahaha!” were the usual break up fare