@LukeAlmighty @dave my wife and I have a great relationship? she's a therapist, is doing really well with our 4mo daughter. we're netting more than ever before, our girl is healthy, and christmas is right around the corner.

my guy, you are projecting this false idea that every marriage is miserable, perhaps because you've witnessed marriages that were bad or poorly maintained. I'm not advocating for every single person to get married. maybe for some people it's better to keep things fluid and just date women on and off, but what you were saying before is that it's better to get ZERO pussy, be an incel, than any other situation.

sex is universal, for 99% of the population. it's good to be aroused, it's good to please and be pleased, it's good to be intimate with people in a respectful and peaceful way.

like i said, perhaps you've witnessed a bad marriage or bad relationship, but i would urge you not to discount romantic sex out of your lifestyle entirely. it's just not worth the pain.