Okay so I’ve been drowning in this thing for a while now,and TBH guys are kinda missing it.

You wouldn’t fault your CPU for being unable to render super high res games at 60fps, stop expecting women to see the world the same way that you do. They don’t see things the exact same way, that’s why we cover each other.

Guys will laugh at this bottle test like the girls are dumb but do the male version of obviously retarded, but gendered things like saying “well I wouldn’t say ‘I love you’ back because, like, I don’t really KNOW if I love you“ to their GF

I don’t expect my gals to have superb spacial reasoning, that’s not what they’re wired for. I take care of that stuff, and they end up helping me with the colors, the people, the stylistic choices. She can’t shape-rotate, yeah, but I can’t tell any meaningful difference between all 16 shades of white in her swatch collection, either

You can laugh, but this is a good way to understand the fundamental difference in how they approach the world. You probably saw this project and drew upon thousands of little projects and tasks, you pictured it in your head, rendered you own little bottle in your mind and simulated the way it would react.

Ladies don’t really have that going on, they don’t live in the task-based world like we do, they can be more….fantasy-based. That’s why they draw the water line wrong, it’s not real to them, they’re probably, if anything, thinking they’re being smart by doing that, because they’re spending their mental cycles thinking about why you’re asking, what you expect her to do, what you want her to draw, etc.

Different systems for different purposes.

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> if anything, thinking they’re being smart by doing that, because they’re spending their mental cycles thinking about why you’re asking, what you expect her to do, what you want her to draw, etc.

This part can drive men insane. If I have a misunderstanding, the best way around it is to get to the simplest statements possible. Yet, as soon as the complexity of your statements get below some level, women start answering their "strategic social puzzle" instead of that simple statement.

And that is just insanity... :ablobrage:

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