I’d put this forth for all the guys in their early 20’s talking about how they’d be totally willing to get married “if I found the right one” - you may be due to revamp your approach to dating. If you were to imagine an outside consultant coming in and advising you on a career, what would he say about your approach to searching, sorting, and testing wife candidates?

Would he say “you don’t appear to be searching in any meaningful way whatsoever”? ‘Cause that’s kind of our default. We just go through our day to day grind with our passive wife-radar-array sweeping in the background, but never really actively hunting for targets.

When I got w/ current gf I did feel genuinely bad at the thought that I was diverting her from a dude in her own bracket, but the more I talked about her experiences the more it became apparent that all the guys she knew were apparently more invested in playing dark souls with their friends online than keeping a standing date with a woman. That’s for the special subset of guys she’d meet and know, which rarely advanced past the most basic texting level because she’s very passive and shy….and so are they.

RT: https://poa.st/objects/bbd86096-aa2e-47d5-ae52-f7277af45685

@WashedOutGundamPilot im very pro mgtow but i have to admit that the women i see all over the internet being held up as examples of modern womanhood are dramatically worse than any woman i actually know. ghetto hoodrat nigger culture seems to have an oversized representation in the redpill/misogyny conversation. i dont know any women like the whores on whatever and pearly things.

@PapaPole Guys are very, abysmally retarded to an extent that shocks me:

Not every woman is online. The ones you CAN see are self-selecting and generally trash. They are the tip of the female iceberg, and there’s a whole, untapped, vast landscape of suitable women who lay completely outside of our view as single guys.

In my family, I got probably close to a dozen pretty wifable women through all the cousins, ranging from teens to 20’s. You know how many of those have a substantial online footprint that a guy can see? Maybe 4? The rest tend to only hang out in small family groups, they don’t have super high-visibility insta/tiktok pages to farm attention from dudes.

We get flooded with so much evidence of thottery we’re getting snowed in and actually believing the average off-the-shelf white girl in 2023 is going to be a clubgoing tinder whore. The millies seemed to hit a high-water mark, it was new and novel to them, but the zoomers are retreating in droves.

Just look at the sexlessness data for women. It’s rising. Depending on the demographics in your area, you’ve probably got an all right shot at sourcing a nice, wifable girl who’s living at home and just as blackpilled about finding a hubby as you are a wife.