A ton of women complain about having to "write a list" for a man who's shopping, and that when they do write it, the man still comes home with a different brand of butter.

that is boring...
But then, in comments, there is always a comment saying "they wouldn't do that at work "

Bitch...... That is their work. That is EXACTLY what I do at work. I have a written list of requirements, and I have to ESTIMATE or IMPROVISE to pass the requirements in the best way possible. If buying a butter on sale, that is good enough is considered something "insane, that you wouldn't do at work", then no wonder women get fucking payed less.