@rher @LukeAlmighty I have like ptsd from having to live in large shitty apartment buildings when I turned 18. You just hear and smell everything your neighbors are doing and never really feel alone. Coming from a single family home my entire life before that it was jarring and made me feel like a caged animal on a fur farm. Not sharing walls with people is a quality of life thing I can never give up. So also suburbs for me.