As I said this in another thread, I'm probably never going to have kids, Regardless of if I want to or not which I'm not sure on (I've got 2 conflicting beliefs on the issue), So I REALLY don't want to be stuck living in a hell I didn't have any hand in creating, and that I have no power to start the solution to stop, for the rest of my days, if anything that's my biggest fear, in part as there's a decent chance it'll come to pass...