This reminds me: "men are the gatekeepers of relationship, women are the gatekeepers of sex"

If you follow this simple rule, it makes a lot of things make sense.

If you're a man, you are the one responsible for starting the relationship.
There used to be rules about what was expected for a woman and sex for relationships. The positive and negative is that you *have* to set rules now and there can be some tricky situations with it, but the positive is that you get to make it clear what your rules are.

@sickburnbro
> The positive is that you get to make it clear what your rules are.

False. You always could make it clear and change them. But right now, there is no baseline to make basic assumptions from, so you cannot even cross the 1st line of signaling without risking prison.

It is pure chaos.

@LukeAlmighty it's not quite pure chaos, but I know what you're saying.

But I think if guys understand what is really happening, we can deal with this.

In general, you're not going to end up in prison unless you do stuff that was probably not a great idea. Could you end up marrying a bitch and she steals half your shit? Possibly. But I'm pretty certain the majority of the women that are gonna do crazy shit like that were crazy before ( and maybe it was fun for a while )

I think if guys help each other - at this point - we can build networks which support each other and help shield from the worst of these effects.
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