@mushroom_soup see this is what a lot of men don't understand that women have two values that they judge men on.

You have the good boy sude which judges by how nice you treat them, & generally how nice you are to the people around you and then you have the bad boy side.

This is this side that add spice to a woman's relationship you have to be a little dangerous and a little wild. This is the side that makes women incredibly clingy and go back to men even when it's a bad idea.

That's why men find women incredibly confusing for men it's just only 2 judgment values does she have a nice personality and is she hot enough.