bf's mom really does not seem to understand the concept of a food allergy. no matter how many times I tell her "if I eat shrimp or anything with shrimp in it I will die" she seems to interpret it as "I just don't like the taste of shrimp".
Feels like every time we have dinner together she'll order something with shrimp in it then make a big deal about it. Like "Oh I thought you liked thai food, why don't you want to try this?".