@salt @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @becassine @bot @mushroom_soup @scary_person @ew
Aaahh... I think there was a misunderstanding. I meant a few dozen sexual acts, not a few dozen partners. I'm guessing you meant partners by "1-2 max".

@alyx @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @bot @scary_person yeah partners. but even so. the amount of sexual acts is disturbing.

im sorry im autistic.

@salt @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @bot @scary_person
What about this scenario: she's only ever been in 1 long term relationship, all the sex she's ever had was with this 1 partner, and because they've been together for a long time, she's managed to have sex with him a few dozen times.

@alyx @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @bot @scary_person idk. its better but it would still kill me emotionally

@salt @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @bot @scary_person
I have to admit, I find your view on things very strange and hard to understand. I'd consider lucky if I'd found such a committed woman.

@alyx @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @bot @scary_person you dont give up morals to please society

@alyx @salt I do wonder if there is a bit of a projection of salt's personal emotional uneasiness or discomfort onto an abstract moral principle.

Do you think that is possible salt? Or is it entirely a moral issue.

@Greannach @alyx i could not live married to someone i know has been piped before. whatever you think of that doesnt really matter

@salt @alyx It goes without saying that my private thoughts on it don't matter. I was just interested in getting at the root of the thing.

@salt @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @bot @scary_person
And as a bonus, would you consider a relationship with a divorced woman who's only had sex during her marriage?

@alyx @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @bot @scary_person thats a double no. especially considering my age range

@salt @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @bot @scary_person
A divorced woman doesn't need to be old. Sometimes marriages can happen and fail very early in life. But I find it more interesting that you seem to reject even women that in a way tried to do what you ask of them, to only have sex with what should have been their one and only partner, only for the relationship to have failed.

@alyx @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @bot @scary_person if she was 21 and divorced with no kids then she falls into the same area as the other one.

@salt @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @bot @scary_person
The one you said it would kill you emotionally? That to me sounds like ultimately you'd reject her. Even if you try a relationship, it makes me think that you wouldn't be able to emotionally open up to her completely which would lead to a break up.

@alyx @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @bot @scary_person its just how it is i guess.

@salt @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @bot @scary_person
Try to understand that if your standards are this high, that you would punish even women that try to live up to them but fail at no fault of their own, then you'll end up with a sad and lonely life. At this point, for a woman to be able to follow what you ask of them, they'd have to not have sex even after getting married, because there would be no way of knowing for certain the marriage will not fail.

@alyx @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @bot @scary_person the marriage one is different. and not something i really want to get into. its too complicated.

morally it is perfectly fine. and i wouldnt question it if someone else did marry her. but for me personally. just me specifically. i am not looking for divorced women.

@salt @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @bot @scary_person
If you don't want to get into it any further, then I guess I'm gonna take my leave too. Have a good day. I appreciate this calm conversation we've had.

@salt @alyx @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @bot @scary_person you sound like the kind of partner who would get mad at your girlfriend for being nice to the male waiter or demand to know where she was and see her phone if she had to stay late at work. You are not able to have a mature and trusting relationship.

@salt @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @alyx @bot @scary_person I've been with this kind of guy before and it was by far my worst experience with a bf

@salt @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @alyx @bot @scary_person also I'm curious to know how salt would react to a girl watching porn

@mushroom_soup @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @alyx @bot @salt @scary_person make a video of yourself watching pornography, post if to the fedi then tag salt in it. Like a science experiment.

@MisterRogersSnapped @mushroom_soup @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @alyx @bot @scary_person forgivable. as long as she got over the habit.

@salt @MisterRogersSnapped @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @alyx @bot @scary_person what if she currently does?

@mushroom_soup @salt @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @alyx @bot @scary_person dies she have an insatiable need for the porn or is she just an average pornography enjoyer?

@MisterRogersSnapped @mushroom_soup @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @alyx @bot @scary_person if i did i would be okay with her doing it. if she currently does it then she will have to stop before we get married.

@MisterRogersSnapped @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @alyx @bot @mushroom_soup @scary_person well. i wouldnt be "okay" with it so much as accept that we are/were on the same level. its still bad and im not okay with the fact i did it. but it isnt a deal breaker.

@salt @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @alyx @bot @mushroom_soup @scary_person

Does the type of porn matter?

For instance, I wouldn't date, fuck, marry, be interested in a woman who was getting off to gangbangs or interracial sex.

@MisterRogersSnapped @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @alyx @bot @mushroom_soup @scary_person the porn progression scale is unavoidable. so i would not judge based on porn. unless it was something reallylllyyyyy fucked up

@MisterRogersSnapped @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @alyx @bot @salt @scary_person just regular porn watcher

@mushroom_soup @MisterRogersSnapped @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @alyx @salt @scary_person maybe you should watch something wholesome instead.

@bot @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @alyx @salt @scary_person I can't get off to wholesome shit!

@mushroom_soup

I am disappoint. You should change your preference

@bot @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @alyx @salt @scary_person

@leyonhjelm @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @alyx @bot @salt @scary_person I'm jk I get off to kissing and passionate heterosexual sex

@mushroom_soup @leyonhjelm @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @alyx @bot @salt @scary_person
Kinda gay

@SneedsterSpeedster @mushroom_soup UNTAG ME PLEASE

@mushroom_soup

You sound lewd enough to hold hands

@Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @alyx @bot @salt @scary_person

@bot @mushroom_soup @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @alyx @salt @scary_person
Kis shows are a virus please don't, signed ive watched mlp; fim pretty much three times

@biohazard458 @bot @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @alyx @salt @scary_person lol salt is a brony

@mushroom_soup @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @alyx @bot @salt @scary_person
Yee that's why we chatted on KF and Discord for a bit...