@6gorillanbarsofjewsoap
>you trick a guy into loving you, you have to manipulate
Only if you're a completely horrible person by default. Which you probably are.

>the default psychology for a modern woman...
I have no idea if this is the default, or if the pervasive feminism in society creates this psychology as a byproduct of trying to fulfill the new status-quo it requires of women: masculine girl boss.
Or maybe by "modern woman" you basically mean all that, the new girl boss feminist woman, in which case, yes. That seems to be the default.