Trying to correct transphobes is exhausting…

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>she
It's always a cis woman crawing attention

@matrix @traabot never have i seen any afab do it for attention

@wowaname
I said always but that was a bit of a hyperbole.
From my observations the main reasons people identify as nonbinary are attention/trend/politics, part of coping with rape or sexual abuse, as part of realizing they are trans. The first one comes with no changes to behavior or appearance while the rest do. The first one is also the most common because it costs nothing.
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@wowaname @traabot
I also just realized that there's mostlikely a language component to this as many languages don't feature a singular they people can abuse. For example the only way to be nonbinary in the Czech language is to be called "it", which is dehumanizing so not worth it, especially if you are doing it for the first and third reason.
This is just a thought though.

@matrix @wowaname @traabot Do you also have gendered past tense like Russian? We have gendered plurals in Icelandic

@applejack
Past tense is gendered.
Gendered plurals? Like group of women is addressed differently to a group of men?
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@matrix @wowaname @traabot Ye
They: Þeir, þær, þau
Male, female, neuter