@Riamu @LordMordred idk where you guys live but in utah we have plenty of public pools and a lot of them have totally out in the open showers, lockers, and some even have separate ones for families instead of just male/female rooms.
@Riamu @LordMordred that's why a lot of places have the family locker rooms where it's kind of like co-ed and it's just in the mind of everyone that you should really only be going in there if you are in a family that can't go into a gendered room, but i remember as a kid seeing fathers taking their daughters into the male locker room when there wasn't another option. i mean, that's a lot more acceptable than going into the women's one as an adult male or even sending them in there by themselves.
maybe that's changed because i haven't gone swimming at a public pool for over a decade but at least that's how it used to be.