question of the day #30: do you want kids? why or why not?
🌿 
>do you want kids?
YES, lots of them.
>why
Idk it just feels the thing to do.
My new neighbors have children and each time time I hear them giggling I'm just thinking " god I wish I had these sounds too over here" idk if it makes any sense to you but that's how I feel.
@mangeurdenuage @dommymommy that's pretty much my answer. kids are precious.
this kind of sounds weird, but i didn't have the greatest time growing up, so i want to have a kid that i can treat well and take better care of. i was taken care of on paper, by the letter of the law, but that's really it. i want to give a kid an actually good upbringing.
also there's just that biological urge to have children and be a father. this is probably REALLY weird but i've been playing FEAR and whenever alma shows up i'm not creeped out, i'm like "come here let me hold you."
>but i didn't have the greatest time growing up, so i want to have a kid that i can treat well and take better care of.
I would lie if it wasn't also related to that but it's better imo to just put that aside or one might want to project himself into his children. This happened with my father and I, he went crazy when I came back from Australia unsuccessful.
>there's just that biological urge to have children
This.
> and be a father
And husband.
@mangeurdenuage @dommymommy oh yeah for sure, without context i guess it can sound kinda bad but my father was gung ho on me just being him but more successful. didn't work out very well at all. we could probably relate a lot there.
so i want to do the opposite of that, let them grow as an individual instead of putting an immense amount of pressure on them to be perfect.
>instead of putting an immense amount of pressure on them to be perfect.
The hardest part when you're young is to understand why you need to know x and y or do x and y.