This is all you have to do my dudes. Go out there and get some.

@Varus I should probably start leading with "are you single" instead of asking for a number because I'm met with "I have a boyfriend" every time I ask

@beardalaxy @beardalaxy for me its never they have bf its always that they are busy or at their job and can't

@Varus the last time I actually successfully got a girl's number she gave it to her friend who I had no interest in -_-

@beardalaxy american women have really high expectations. dating apps also make it so they have so many choices you're basically an after thought.

@Varus I will match with girls regularly, ask to go out some time, then either get ghosted completely or they'll spend a bit more time giving excuses as to why they can't go out and then they'll ghost me. It's like why tf did you match with me then??

I managed to go on one date last year and it was pretty bad. I won't bore you with the details but it sucked.

@beardalaxy depends on your location i suppose. sometimes its hard to understand why dating sucks

@Varus yeah there's a lot of shit about my life that makes it hard that's for sure. I don't think I'm unattractive per se but there's a lot of other hurdles that are in my way.
Recently I've been thinking more that it just might legitimately not be in the cards for me, which sounds a little hopeless but might actually be true.
At least I know that if I do end up with anyone they'll really actually love me.