@Arkana @hellhammer666 literally, a girl becomes way more attractive to me if she's nice to me or shows interest. Easily boosts someone 2-3 points.
There was a girl that I swiped left on on tinder, not the type I would ever consider dating (she had face piercings and funky dyed hair), but she sent me a message on Instagram and asked to go on a date so I said fuck it, let's do it. Turned out to be one of my better relationships, if not my best (although the bar for that is pretty low). She was kind, compassionate, really engaged in conversations and was really easy to warm up to. Perhaps she was too compassionate because her toxic friend had a complete mental breakdown and moved to Washington, so she followed her there and we had only been dating for 4 months or so, which effectively ended the relationship.
Point being though, it doesn't take much to make a guy happy.
@JohnGritt @Arkana @hellhammer666 i've had far too much character development for one lifetime tbh