Real life stuff bad, fictional stuff fun. Games, anime, movies, books...

Not too hard to understand.

DOOM isn't gonna make anyone shoot up a school unless they're mentally unstable and being taught that death is something to look forward to. I have no doubt in my mind that I would never harm a child even if there was a gun to my head because I am a sane individual. I get borderline panicked when I see people being mean to kids. I was shaking for a good half hour when I had to save a toddler from wandering into the street. There's no way I'd ever harm a kid and I'm 100% sure of that. I wasn't provided for emotionally as a child very much so why would I wish bad shit to happen to other kids?

Liking loli and wanting to protect real children are not mutually exclusive. If you apply this line of thinking to literally anything else, people can understand the difference, but then you ask them about loli and they get so irrational.

On top of that, I know loli stuff is a good coping mechanism for a lot of people. Maybe even myself, though I'm still trying to sort that out. You might not like it, but it's something that, in and of itself, doesn't hurt anyone. It requires someone to be in a very dark place to take that into real action, just like anything else. It's a mental health issue.