@Awoo Imagine thinking a cuckold has anything of value to say about your relationship when he's not even the main man in his own.
I mean.... if he believes marriage is a two person thing, why did he make it a slutty wife gang bang? 🤔
So he thought marriage was an antiquated concept, so he got married for tax benefits, but never stated that was the reason, and instead spent significant time advocating that marriage was a thing and could be open.

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@Humpleupagus @Awoo @MeBigbrain @condret
Monogamy is hit or miss, but it's still better than the alternatives. Polygamy with one man and many wives is at best messy and entirely reliant on the man being a gigachad patriarch alpha, usually as a ruler or otherwise extremely wealthy. And Polyamory where you let women have more than one man will always, always, always go to shit.
There is no higher spiritual union than a monogamous relationship. When it fails, it's because one or both parties were unwilling to give themselves to the union.

If a person cannot even care for one other person unconditionally, if they can't demonstrate commitment and loyally, how can they be trusted?

And being intimately involved with another through the good and the bad, and to rear children with them, is an excellent way to understand one's self and what it means to be human.

I'm tired of kids who are wet behind the ears telling me about marriage. They're just coping with the fact that they're generally insufferable people who are unable to form any meaningful relationships. They think they know everything about humanity and society and its ills and what it takes to save it, but can't even commit to one other person. Smfh.
@Humpleupagus @Awoo @ArdainianRight @MeBigbrain but marriage is the opposite of loyalty. Marriage mean distrust towards future versions of your partner. Marriage is an environment in which it is harder to leave. Getting divorced requires more effort than just leaving someone. This is why i'll never get married. i want my gf to stay with me, because she loves me and not because we're married
Marriage is trust. It is the reflection of a belief of the permanence of the union.

You are the one who distrusts. You believe that one day your girlfriend will change her mind. You similarly are unwilling to commit, because you distrust your own decisions.

If you trust, there is no reason to not get married.
@Humpleupagus @Awoo @ArdainianRight @MeBigbrain it's the opposite of trust, marriage is more of a contract. you wouldn't need that contract, if you trusted in the other person
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Treating marriage as just another contract that you can dip out of as opposed to a sacred covenant is the problem. If you don't have real roots, a sense of the sacred, and meaningful family and community, where everyone is just an atomized consoomer, then you have nothing, you have no ground for building real relationships or a real family, and thus no foundation for building a future. Such a society is doomed to wither and die.
Especially your girlfriend's pussy. Good luck with your nigger baby.
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@condret @Awoo @ArdainianRight @Humpleupagus @MeBigbrain no kids, no marriage, sounds pretty fuckin lame to me.

Marriage is an amazing union of two souls, and children are the product of those two souls with infinite potential that will create/feed into a recurring positive cycle if nurtured correctly.

Seems like you only have worldly ambitions :pinkguytroll:

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