@Aldo2 idk what kind of dude can't tell the difference between a 12 and a 16 year old tbh. if he had actually taken his responsibility as an adult seriously maybe that girl wouldn't have felt guilty and tried to kill herself. i say we throw him to the wolves
honestly i think two minors in their teens dating each other is fine, especially if the parents know and are making sure things are all good. but an adult "performing sexual acts" with a 12 year old... nahhh man that ain't it.