@beardalaxy @Ronnie21093 I think by nature going all in on "lolicon community" as a focus would drive you to only the worst, niche communities aren't meant to be the sole source of communication. Happens to a lot of communities actually. Sticking around on Varis feels fine since it's rather a site that allows lolicon rather than just some lolicon only circlejerk, gives a lot more actual feeling to this place rather than some vague attempt at being the "safe-haven."
People who have fringe or criminal ideas always stick to abusing another's groups and ideas to hide away. Publicly identifying as a "lolicon" as your only trait or constantly feeling the need to state it constantly gives that appearance of having something to hide from others. Can't blame you for becoming weary of this all when vocal idiots like this are increasing in number.