>my mother has pretty big expenses this month
>she JUST decided to buy 300 bucks worth of reborn dolls (she's hyper-obsessed with them)
>sometimes she just buys them, gets anxiety attacks while waiting for them, gets them, cuddles them for a day, maybe a week then sends them back (this already happened 7 times)
>she just asked me if she can borrow 2000 bucks for yet another reborn doll
what kind of mental illness is this? can i get her locked up in a mental hospital for good? :whitecat_wtf:
@beardalaxy she sends them back because "the seller lied he said it's all silicone but it's not"
"okay then lets pack it up and send it back imme--"
"NO IT'S CUTE I WANT TO PAMPER IT FOR A BIT"
"you're sick in the head"
"I DON'T CARE"
@Will2Power @Xeraser @beardalaxy That would probably work too, but if you're on the fediverse, chances are you never were that good with women, not to mention the absolute mess dating has become
@vokainen099 @beardalaxy @Will2Power I'm a magnet for mentally unstable highest maintenance women
I don't have that kind of mental strength and endurance anymore after my twice-ex
@Will2Power @beardalaxy
Absolutely not lmao, I'd never even let her know whether I'm dating to begin with
@Xeraser @beardalaxy @Will2Power Here's the thing: mothers can become extremely anxious if they see you aren't taking off in life. That might have triggered her obsession. She kinda looking for a fake do-over, since she feels she messed up with you (Not faulting, you, BTW, our world is messed up).

Getting anxious for dolls, and then guilting over them is an hint.

If she were to see you taking good steps in life (Getting a girlfriend, or a decent enough job), she might calm down enough to think she didn't fail too bad, and stop with the dolls.
@vokainen099 @beardalaxy @Will2Power Dude I don't think you get it
I don't care about her, she ruined my life multiple times and I want her to have nothing to do with my future life in case I manage to make enough to escape from this asylum of a household
@Xeraser @beardalaxy @Will2Power Many such cases, and then they miss their parents once it's too late. She's still your mother, and you won't have another.

But, as you wish. Just don't end up thinking one day that this obnoxious effort poster with the anime elf avatar giving a finger was actually right all along.

Solitude is a terrible, terrible thing. But you do you :blobangel:
@vokainen099 @beardalaxy @Will2Power
>still your family so just put up with it because you'll end up missing it after it's too late
Absofuckinglutely not, blood ties mean absolutely fucking nothing to me when I cant recognize even the slightest bit of myself in the mental asylum patient who tried and failed to raise me because she never mentally matured past the age of 10. I've hated my mother's side of the family for decades and that will never change.
@Xeraser @beardalaxy @Will2Power You can just put down clear limits (Like stopping with the doll thing), but remind her that you're still there.

You can be on good terms without having to tolerate anything. Easier if you're in your own place, but you can still make it work.

She may be a womanchild, but not totally oblivious. You can literally ask her from where the doll thing is from. Ask her if she doesn't like you as a son. Harsh, but needed in this case.
@vokainen099 @beardalaxy @Will2Power
I'm going to bed but let me know what part of "I want nothing to do with this womanchild and the sooner I can achieve that the better" you don't understand :hoshino_sleep: 👋
@Xeraser @beardalaxy @Will2Power The part of "I think I know everything in life, but I still feel the need to ask strangers what to do, but treat them like shit if they're patient enough to read my messages"

Also, you already would be out of town if you hated her that much.

Good night, boyo :antibully: :cirnowink:
@vokainen099 @beardalaxy @Will2Power
>"but treat them like shit"
Not what I've done in the slightest but allow me to do worse.
@Xeraser
No joke try giving her a full round of ivermectin. Rumor has it that it can fix faggotry. So whatever she has should be a walk in the park.
@beardalaxy @Will2Power
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