@coded_artist I actually have a limited experience with this. An ex, when we were together, was by her own admission obsessed with me and I noticed that just being in my presence was enough for her. Most of the time we'd just watch Youtube videos and get friendly. The later was nice, but the former had me thinking "Is this it? Is this all it's gonna be?" Like she was so enamored with me there was nothing pushing me to make things more interesting.