I guess the only way to get a gf is not to try? I should just give up and get a hobby, the irony is then I'll get a gf but I won't be obsessed with her so it'll be like meh whatever, might even be a little annoying.
@Jazzy_Butts the best advice i hear is to love yourself before you can love someone else. If you can be content with being you/single, you will naturally attract those who also want to be with you
