@AdHocToth @Robert_Edwardly @matrix Also, being some guy who can't work up the balls to ask a church girl out isn't the same as being a monk, which they love to compare themselves to. That's actual volcel in the sense many think of it as.
As in, "I took a religious vow of celibacy and adhere to it." Not "I share Deus Vult memes, be a virgin or my frens will bantz me."
The religious aspect is overplayed, I wasn't a man ho in my Edgy Intellectual Satanist phase, which was also when I had porn jews who wanted to "put me to work."
Declining opportunity vs never having one, another distinguishing factor.
Similarly, you aren't pacifist just because you're incapable of commiting violence, pacifism is a choice, self control.
"You don't seem like anything Limited Edition, and I don't want to explain herpes or hep to my future wife, so, pass." You just have to have self preservation, deferred gratification and a long time horizon.
Tldr
"I would, I try, but currently can't" - incel
"What? She isn't my 11/10 custom commissioned 2D Princess Zelda elf waifu virgin who likes everything I like & wants to date some skinnyfat uggo nerd who thinks henrai is SFW, made flesh? WHORE!!!" - volcel, because that's a fucking choice.
Or, just call them what us Trad AF Oldfags did: stupid fucking retards, & move on.
@matrix have they tried poa.st ?