@matrix Many years ago, I held the position of "I'm happy to leave people alone if they leave me alone". My position hasn't changed, but I've come to understand that leaving people alone is no longer on the table.
@xarvos@sjw Yeah, if you can get away with SQLite it's the best, but in my experience PostgreSQL is the best SQL database in terms of features, usability and performance. Only thing annoying is upgrading between major versions.