At the end of the day if you can't cope with something as inevitable as "wow this activity that is openly broadcast over activitypub might eventually be picked up on and put in a user-readable form by some kind of bot" then honestly, just grow a fucking spine.
If you're going to swim in chaos then swim in chaos, don't start fucking crying just because chaos happened to include things that you found difficult to deal with.
I'm not saying nobody can ever give anybody else a helping hand, I'm just saying that you can't pick and choose when it comes to chaos. It would be like yelling and screaming at nature for letting something that fucks you over (like covid-19 or mosquitos or whatever), it's just pointless, stop being a fucking baby and work out a solution.