@jack @ihavebigtits Probably because everyone wants a fucking affirmative consent waiver before anything sexual happens now. I really hate how we've redefined "rape" so that essentially any regretted action comes under the broad umbrella.
It's KILLED seduction. And the sad part about that is that from talking to a lot of women, they still WANT seduction.
I'm coming back to it again: The classic Christmas song "Baby It's Cold Outside." EVERY Christmas for the last few years it's been snarkily attacked by feminist types who think it's "rapey" because he's convincing her to stay in a snowstorm.
It's seduction. Sorry. It's fucking seduction.
If you don't like being seduced then you can just say "No", can't you? Isn't that what all these stupid ~consent~ PSA campaigns (conducted at massive expense) are supposed to be saying? That you can "just say no?"
And you can. If I'm trying to seduce someone and they give me that hard "no", why the fuck would I continue? It's not even a ~respect~ thing, by that point all the joy is gone from it. Seduction is only fun so long as you're getting the "well.... I dunno...... hmmm~~" responses, which are an invitation to persuasion.
If anyone is reading this and doesn't like it then you can fucking suck my dick.