its why having a mediterranean attitude towards work is always a good thing. work should only be seen as a means and a tool to better ourselves and our condition, our live should never revolve around work. even the medieval peasant farmers worked much less hours than the average american does today, and greed alongside with constant work without break only harms the body and spirit.

@ferrarilegends it's really common for some reason to see Arabs as lazy and not wanting to work (in fairness, nobody wants to work, honestly) but the harsh fact is that they're strongly protective of the "life" in "work life balance". They find it really strange that White people have been duped into working more than 40hrs a week and then treating it as a flex. @n8

all arabs that move to the west get hit with the hard reality of working in Europe and the US and immediately miss living back home even if you were only scraping by money-wise.

@ferrarilegends Funny enough a buddy of mine agreed with this. "sure we were poor as shit but at least we were experiencing a life more than 2 days every week or so, and then 10 years before we die."
Fuck me that's brutal.
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its why most of the older people that become well off just take their money they made and go back home, or they still keep their businesses around in the US and use that money back home to game the system.

@ferrarilegends see, I used to think it was laziness, now I realize it's just giving a shit about the quality of your life. @n8

exactly. american society was brainwashed to think that actually caring about yourself and your family over money and the small, statistically miniscule chance to generate lots of wealth by stepping thru the career ladder is laziness.

@ferrarilegends It's also worth noting how annoyingly narrow the definition of family is in the USA. In the Middle East and Asia "family" is broad as fuck. In the USA they have to preface with "extended family" if it's not your immediate family which is dumb. @n8

even in the middle east, you'll see children raising their own families at their parents home. even some of the more well off families in the middle east will just expand their houses into mini-houses to let their kids raise their families in, or they'll just live near each other.

@ferrarilegends I had to explain to someone that this is why "rich people houses" are traditionally very huge. You had your family, probably your spouse's family as well. If you needed them, servants and maybe their families. So you had a shit ton of people and a 5 bedroom house won't cut it.

People are mocking young Americans for living at home but to Southern Europeans, most Asians and Arabs that's completely normal. The issue isn't that we're "childish" the economy just fucking sucks.
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@orcbuddy @ferrarilegends @n8 Extended families living together was the norm for most of human history, and there's something to be said for it. No way can a couple both work full-time jobs and raise a family without significant family help.
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@ArdanianRight Everyone thinks about kids or family for this scenario, which is important but there's another thing that isn't thought about that much. What if someone gets injured or sick? While you'd like to stay home with them it's not always realistic, if you had family living with you you can be assured that while /you/ may not be the one looking after them right now, someone close to you (mom, dad, aunt, etc) is. @ferrarilegends @n8

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