@_p@shitposter.club @Lainyboy@neckbeard.xyz @sim Yeah and then you have generational messaging that "the only way you can get rich is to do crime" and even when racial barriers are lifted, few people will even believe they can succeed. So they won't try. 75% of doing something is believing you can.
Like, dogs trained to stay in the yard via an invisible electric fence won't be able to tell when the fence has been deactivated, and will never leave. You know what I mean?
@realcaseyrollins @_p @Lainyboy You know, I did wonder what was happening there. But like you say, I can see that if you have that message drilled into you then it would be very limiting. I do hope that things change for future generations. There must be a way to have a generation of healthy people who have healthy relationships with others around them.
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@sim @Lainyboy@neckbeard.xyz @_p@shitposter.club Yep. IDK how long it would take but I think it'd be best to try that in how one raised their own families.
This was my motivation behind this toot from yesterday: https://gameliberty.club/@realcaseyrollins/104282014962792938
@realcaseyrollins Yeah, this is where I plan to start. I can't change the world, society or other people, but I can make the decisions for myself. I can learn how to be healthy and to be that example, so that I can have healthy relationships with my own family. I think it starts with how you relate to yourself, and then you can have healthy relationships with your own family and friends, and others you get close to. But you have to be selective. It's a two-way street, all the healthy relationship stuff can't be one-sided. I hope that you are able to find a woman you can have a healthy relationship with and pass that onto your children.
