@vriska it was incredibly annoying being gneder nonconforming.
i was just highly dissuaded out of it at every step.
"people would kill to have hair as long as yours don't cut it!!!!!"
"Why don't you ever wear any makeup I think you look so nice put together."
But in my family there is like a lot of pushback against tranesss and i got told a bunch that just because I liked boy things didn't make me a boy. Which was correct. But also at the same time I couldn't be a boy because I liked the color pink??? Which overall has nothing to do with boyness.
overall corrections need to be made on gender nonconformingness and the concepts of gender.
you can be whatever you want.