@xianc78 @hachi That’s honestly what I’ve realized, at the end of today even most “Nice” peolpe are subconsciously “ableist”, disability makes you think in fundamentally different way. An autist is unable to conform to “neurotypical” thinking, all ABA can manage is teaching shame about the autistic thought. Disabled people can not conform to the “able-bodied”, and the “able-bodied” can not conform to the Disabled. If we can not really on the well-abled, and we can not expect them to support us. We can only support ourselves.