@matana I remember the times when I desperately tried to defend myself from the charges by doing the "I have X friends" or whatever else.
I even once showed a guy photos of me when I was a child living in Oman, or other photos of me with my "diverse" friends (many of which became /pollacks way before I even knew what that was). The response was "those photos are fake" or other stuff that was honestly more insulting and "racist" towards my friends than anything I'd say now.
Of course, nowadays, as I've accepted that no amount of sincere arguing will change their view, I just stick with the "I don't care", or if I really get pissed off then I use the last one.
It's just sad to see people claim that they're "winning" the "culture war" by trapping themselves in the same libshit zeitgeist (equality reigns supreme!!!!) that their enemies use.