@Bloop I don't know much about women because every one I talk to says women want something completely different. I just want a woman who has a fetish for fat hasbeens who used to be sexy and peaked in high school, and that are nice guys and who like the idea of crossdressing even though they're too fat and butch to be a good femboy anymore...

@Jazzy_Butts
"I don't know much about women because every one I talk to says women want something completely different"
That's cause they're different people.
Different people want different things. You don't need to "know women" you need to figure out what flags signal they're looking for what you can give.

@Bloop I'm so self conscious about coming across as aggressive and scary that I do not flirt with women or engage with what I think might be flirting on their part on the chance I could be wrong, they have to flatly tell me something like "Let's go home" with a wink and a smile or she has to grab my dick through my pants and lead me out the club by it. Otherwise I'm scared to be myself, the consequences of just hitting on women or feeling them up are not what they were in the 70s, 80s, 90s, or even 2000s. I was told that's how the world worked by everyone older, but the world I grew up in that was strictly forbidden. So I wait for girls to make the first move while they wait for me to make the first move and I firmly won't and then it gets awkward and sometimes they even get hurt feelings or think I only like dick or don't want to fuck them or something.

@Jazzy_Butts I have been successful with zero so. Just being blunt has worked wonders because it's novel to not play games (I guess) and tell them straight up "you're hot/beautiful/sexy, is this going anywhere or are you just being nice/polite/stalling?"
Delivered with a friendly humorous tone.