@matana
Sorry, but I have to.
While there are serious problems for men like devorce-rape, general absence of empathy for men's suffering etc, there are some cases, that I sriously cannot even count as an arguments.

Example: (woman stabbed her BF with a knife, and the judge just didn't care.)
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/3580232/lavinia-woodward-oxford-student-stabbed-boyfriend-philip-kagalovsky-appeal/

Although, that did not remove the important part of the comment, being, that women can be seriously afraid of becomming trapped in an abusive relationship.

Still, I do not think that a case of crazy guy saying things like "you are my property", "you worth nothing", "I'll kill you if you don't obey" are conductive to the conversation, when I was talking about life goals and primary drives described by the line "I don't feel like I need a man right now".