@matana No.
I was talking about the philosophy itself.

As I wrote, most men literaly LIVE for the oportunity of having a family at one point. It is our primary drive, and there are girls who just say: Nah, it's not for me.

That is what is shocking for me. It is the thing, that enables us to suffer through education, long and life-endengaring work and all of that for something that women don't even value? That is unfathomable.

(Your case obviously is a bit different considering health problems...)