@picandor @PhenomX6
Not what I meant. (btw, I know women can also be this kind of chill, but it's rare, since most women get cought in the reputation games.)

I meant the absolute lack of responsibility or 2nd layer thinking. Or the gaslighting... Or the bitching...

Yeah, there's a lot of it. It's almost a miracle I loved to see 3 examples in my life, so I can officially say: "Not all"