From the rest of the conversation, I take it that English isn't your first language. In English, to anybody who isn't a modern faggot, nothing has genders except for nouns themselves. Nobody prior to the groomers described sexual proclivities outside of the mainstream as anything besides "perverted". Oh, you're a women who identified as a man? You're still a sex: female. Cross dressing dude? Sex: male. Gender as a word was not used here by any normal person to classify anything aside from foreign language.