@Mr_NutterButter
Don't forget, that these are American women.
At some point, you have to just cut the bullshit, and make a line of "these women are just playing games" and discard them.
I have reached a point of "fuck it" several years ago, when I asked a co-worker, why she always keeps on repeating how stupid she is, and she said: Men love it, when women is dumb.
You cannot fix them. You just have to find the very few, who are not playing.