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@ew @becassine @bot @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @mushroom_soup @salt @scary_person
If this turns into a theological discussion, this could be interesting.
Something to think about for Salt, if he's a religious person: what if a "whore" sought forgiveness from god for each and every sexual transgression she did before meeting you and pledged to not have sex again till the day the 2 of you got married. Would you consider entering a relationship with her?
@salt @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @becassine @bot @mushroom_soup @scary_person @ew
Let's say a few dozen times, from past attempts at a long term relationships, that failed for one reason or another.
1-2 MAX and 1 is pushing it
@salt @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @becassine @bot @mushroom_soup @scary_person @ew
I see. I appreciate your honest answer.
a few dozen is insane. fucking insane.
@salt @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @becassine @bot @mushroom_soup @scary_person @ew
Aaahh... I think there was a misunderstanding. I meant a few dozen sexual acts, not a few dozen partners. I'm guessing you meant partners by "1-2 max".
im sorry im autistic.
@salt @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @bot @scary_person
What about this scenario: she's only ever been in 1 long term relationship, all the sex she's ever had was with this 1 partner, and because they've been together for a long time, she's managed to have sex with him a few dozen times.
@salt @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @bot @scary_person
And as a bonus, would you consider a relationship with a divorced woman who's only had sex during her marriage?
@salt @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @bot @scary_person
A divorced woman doesn't need to be old. Sometimes marriages can happen and fail very early in life. But I find it more interesting that you seem to reject even women that in a way tried to do what you ask of them, to only have sex with what should have been their one and only partner, only for the relationship to have failed.
@salt @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @bot @scary_person
The one you said it would kill you emotionally? That to me sounds like ultimately you'd reject her. Even if you try a relationship, it makes me think that you wouldn't be able to emotionally open up to her completely which would lead to a break up.
@salt@kiwifarms.cc
@salt @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @bot @scary_person
Try to understand that if your standards are this high, that you would punish even women that try to live up to them but fail at no fault of their own, then you'll end up with a sad and lonely life. At this point, for a woman to be able to follow what you ask of them, they'd have to not have sex even after getting married, because there would be no way of knowing for certain the marriage will not fail.
morally it is perfectly fine. and i wouldnt question it if someone else did marry her. but for me personally. just me specifically. i am not looking for divorced women.
@salt @Greannach @HOLOCAUST @Homegriffon @MisterRogersSnapped @bot @scary_person
If you don't want to get into it any further, then I guess I'm gonna take my leave too. Have a good day. I appreciate this calm conversation we've had.
