I'm not bothered by forced diversity as much as I'm bothered by the glee people find in knowingly trying to offend or annoy "bigoted" people.

When they have that kind of reaction, it's telling me that they're not good people in any way, and that the product they created is bad and shallow, because its main goal simply is not to provide enjoyment to anyone, but rather to provide displeasure for a certain demographic.

Even if you're not racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, or any other kind of bigot, you simply are very unlikely to get any pleasure from such products. Unless you are the same kind of evil vindictive person as the creators, there simply won't be something for you to connect with. The only way you could enjoy yourself is if you're also the kind of person that takes glee from another person's suffering, in this case a bigot, as that is what the creators had in mind.