@Lavaearth @Ota1504
I find it amazing to see so many "releationship researchers" who still don't get, that Me2 was a point of no return.
@LukeAlmighty @Lavaearth @Ota1504
What I find amazing, is that people don't get that men can actually deal with "the epidemic of loneliness" much better than women can.
A man is lonely, what will he do? Take up a hobby.
A woman is lonely, what does she do? Writes articles online questioning why she doesn't get cat-called anymore, and complaining that men need to do better so she can have someone to date.
At this point, I'm pretty sure even the "male loneliness epidemic" was a phrase conceived by people concerned for women's well being, not men. MGTOW has been around for decades, and nobody gave a crap. But for the last few years, feminists have started taking notice that there's less men interested in them. So suddenly "how do we pretend that we care?".
Suddenly someone figured out that for every man that is lonely and single, there's a woman that is lonely and single. Only in men's case, the "loneliness" is more of a "at this point I'm just giving up".
And people looking into the "male loneliness epidemic" are only interested in reversing this "giving up" mentality. Cause it would be trivial to make a man not-lonely. Date him. Go out with him. Befriend him.
But that's not they want. They just want men to work harder and harder for the sole benefit of women. So women can't be asked to just date any ol' lonely single man she finds. Instead, men need to be punished back into working their asses off, until a snotty woman goes "he's not really want I want, but I'll give it a try and maybe he manages to get a raise".
@Lavaearth @alyx @bronze @DemonSixOne @Zergling_man @Ota1504
It unironically feels like all the girls who played PC games for the last 15 years suddenly came out of the caves in the last 2 years, and now, it seriously feels like either I am getting gaslit now, or for my entire childhood.
But it does NOT feel like the same world suddenly.
@LukeAlmighty @Lavaearth @bronze @DemonSixOne @Zergling_man @Ota1504
Something else that would be interesting to analyze though is: how does mature women's interest in gaming (or other hobbies) compare to girls' interest. Cause I suspect as they grew older, there were women who didn't touch the hobby much (or at all) as children, but got into it later on. And it might still be that today's girls aren't any more interested in gaming than girls were a few decades ago.